Toi et Moi style engagement rings have a rich history and deep meaning… and are a favorite here at Marrow! This two-stone style is increasingly popular and a truly romantic choice, fit for someone wanting a more unique approach to their engagement ring. Our collection of Toi et Moi rings spans from classic pairings to unconventional designs, ensuring there's a perfect match for *every* unique love story.

We’re guiding you through the history, meaning, and popular stone pairing ideas for Toi et Moi rings – you’ll have everything you need to know about this sweet design.

Toi et Moi, French for "You and Me," perfectly encapsulates the essence of these rings. Featuring two stones nestled together, a toi et moi symbolizes the union and partnership between two people. It’s a romantic and meaningful choice as an engagement ring, and we love the endless possibilities that can be created. 

Dating back to the 18th century, toi et moi rings gained widespread popularity in 1796 when Napoleon Bonaparte presented one to Josephine de Beauharnais. This historical piece featured a pear-shaped diamond and sapphire (one of our favorite stone combinations!). Since then, toi et moi rings have been seen on royalty and celebrities, each bringing their own twist to the classic design.

Aside from the meaningful and romantic symbolism of toi et moi rings, there’s also endless possibilities when it comes to customization - and can support you in creating a ring that feels completely unique to you and your partner. Toi et moi rings can be personalized to reflect the couple's styles, birthstones, favorite stones, or significant moments in their relationship. Many of our clients will combine something old with something new, or incorporate stones from both families, which feels super special. 

Diamond and Sapphire: This classic pairing embodies the original toi et moi ring given by Napoleon. A diamond traditionally symbolizes strength and purity, while the sapphire represents wisdom and loyalty.

Emerald and Diamond: An emerald paired with a diamond offers a beautiful contrast. Emeralds symbolize growth and harmony, making this pairing a beautiful representation of a flourishing relationship.

Birthstones: Couples often choose their birthstones for a personalized touch. 

Modern Pairings: Contemporary couples might experiment with unconventional pairings such as morganite and aquamarine or black diamond and white diamond for a nontraditional twist.

Ready to start designing or shopping for your perfect toi et moi? Book a 1-on-1 appointment now.